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One thing most of us cannot successfully do is mind our own business. If you ask me the truth I would say we are very fond of being busy bodies and hence to keep ourselves busy we interfere in others life for no reason.
I mean I myself love helping people out and love to be frank but I make sure I am interfering in my loved ones life with whom I can share my thoughts but surely not in lives of people who are just not connected to me. It's good to be helpful and always available to offer a shoulder but peeping into someone's life is surely not a good idea.
The worst of it is that when our help or advice is needed we are afraid to give it. We find it convenient to mind our own business if giving advice or help involves danger or the risk of disfavour. All I'm trying to say is that where courage and support are required we should not find a convenient excuse by saying that we are minding our own business.
In this article I'm actually talking about those great souls you just want to involve themselves in each and every argument. Guys trust me I tend to do that myself but it's good to know your level on involvement and the right time to just keep quite.These are insignificant things in life and if we interfere we will only be adding fuel to the fire and causing a great deal of trouble. In such affairs one should be reserved and stick to one's own affairs.
The whole idea behind writing this particular post is that try keeping yourself away from unnecessary controversies and things that are clearly not connected to you. This is one thing I am learning to change myself because now I know that the best way to have a productive day with less drama is to mind my own business and learn to chill out. Guys, we have so much good to do and so many things to change and therefore you shouldn't be involving yourself to much gossips and I don't know what all.
It's really a really good thing in helping people, taking a stand, supporting etc but only if it's demanded or if it is something that is totally unacceptable. Minding our own business just adds more peace in your life and makes it happier. Let's just try and change this because trust me it'll really help you to be more and more productive.
Haha, I hope I could make my point a little clear.
-Vaibhavi Malhotra
I mean I myself love helping people out and love to be frank but I make sure I am interfering in my loved ones life with whom I can share my thoughts but surely not in lives of people who are just not connected to me. It's good to be helpful and always available to offer a shoulder but peeping into someone's life is surely not a good idea.
The worst of it is that when our help or advice is needed we are afraid to give it. We find it convenient to mind our own business if giving advice or help involves danger or the risk of disfavour. All I'm trying to say is that where courage and support are required we should not find a convenient excuse by saying that we are minding our own business.
In this article I'm actually talking about those great souls you just want to involve themselves in each and every argument. Guys trust me I tend to do that myself but it's good to know your level on involvement and the right time to just keep quite.These are insignificant things in life and if we interfere we will only be adding fuel to the fire and causing a great deal of trouble. In such affairs one should be reserved and stick to one's own affairs.
The whole idea behind writing this particular post is that try keeping yourself away from unnecessary controversies and things that are clearly not connected to you. This is one thing I am learning to change myself because now I know that the best way to have a productive day with less drama is to mind my own business and learn to chill out. Guys, we have so much good to do and so many things to change and therefore you shouldn't be involving yourself to much gossips and I don't know what all.
It's really a really good thing in helping people, taking a stand, supporting etc but only if it's demanded or if it is something that is totally unacceptable. Minding our own business just adds more peace in your life and makes it happier. Let's just try and change this because trust me it'll really help you to be more and more productive.
Haha, I hope I could make my point a little clear.
-Vaibhavi Malhotra